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Sofie Marie: Part Two, Micro Bikinis and Solo Cams

by Rich Moreland, May 2019

Our talk with Sofie Marie, a sultry MILF who is the very essence of a porn vixen, continues.

(All photos are courtesy of Sofie Marie)

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Camming

Next, we turn to camming. Unlike some porn stars, camming for Sofie Marie was not a portal into shooting adult scenes.

She explains.

“I started camming about two years after I started my website so I could interact with my fans and promote my website. I am a very shy person, but I do love chatting with people, so I have really good time talking on cam.

“I view my camming as great way to support my porn career and let my fans know who I really am as a person. I treasure my personal connection with my cam friends and I look forward to talking with them!”

Considering your three adult activities—swinging, camming, and porn—which one is the easiest to do and which is the hardest?

Believe it or not, porn is the smoothest, Sofie claims.

“It’s much easier for me to get mentally ready to shoot a porn scene than it is to go out swinging. Porn is my career and I take it very seriously,” she says emphatically.

On the other hand, “camming is harder than porn,” she believes, but it has its advantages.

“I love talking to my fans and I have learned so much about fetishes and what they want to see.” Her fans are super cool and offer Sofie support in everything she does.

“They do like it that I am so busy!!  Mostly they like that I do porn or swing, but the guys on cam are the ones asking me about my activities.”

What’s more, camming has a significant upside. “I hope it has made my porn scenes better for my fans,” she says.

A Possible Dud

Sofie chuckles that swinging presents challenges camming does not. “In comparison, swinging is kind of awkward in a funny way since I don’t have a camera to pay attention to while I am getting laid!”

Now there is a conscientious porn star!

Sofie Marie adds that swinging has a downside when it comes to personal satisfaction.

“Swinging can be the sexist thing I do, or it can be a dud. Most of my fantasies in my ‘spank bank’ are from swinging experiences that were super hot and horny! Group sex, threesomes, voyeurism, girl/girl, are some of the scenes that get me off when I am masturbating on cam!”

She reassures us that it’s all good in the end.

“When swinging is a dud, I still get to go home and fuck my husband, so it’s a winner, too!”

The Creation Process

From her personal perspective on adult entertainment, which is more rewarding, camming or porn?

“I like porn the best because I love the creation process and the legacy of the video, especially if it’s a good one!” Sofie declares. “I usually cam solo, so it’s a totally different experience than working with a performer. But I always get to have a bunch of orgasms [with camming], so it’s a fun job for me in that way.”

If you had to drop one of your three sexual adventures, what would stick around in your adult portfolio?

“I would keep porn and camming since they give me [the] most [satisfaction] sexually and emotionally,” Sofie says with conviction.

Micro Bikinis

Finally, what is the most important piece of advice anyone wanting a rewarding adult career like yours should consider?

“Being comfortable in your own skin was key for me,” she declares. “As I have said, I was very shy and body conscious when I was younger.”

Of course, today’s Sofie is a different person.

“I am a nudist now and love micro bikinis. My old bikinis were big enough for us to use them as a sail on a sailboat!” she laughs.

Without doubt, modeling was an important factor in the changes Sofie experienced.

“Becoming a micro bikini model and shooting in public really forced me to get over my self-critical perception of my body. I have had so much positive feedback since I started modeling. I had to start listening to the good compliments over my own self-doubts.”

Once she became “confident in her skin,” as she puts it, the beach beauty remarks that the rest of her adult journey fell into place.

“Having sex in front of the camera and then in front of people was a logical step for me.”

But we can’t forget how important support at home is for any adult performer.

“I have a wonderful marriage built on trust and honesty which gives me the emotional confidence to perform and know that I am loved, unconditionally.”

Well said and thanks, Sofie Marie, for an inside look at a spectacular porn star’s career.

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https://sofiemariexxx.com/

 

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May 23, 2019 · 9:17 am

Sofie Marie: Part One, Girl in Charge

by Rich Moreland, May 2019

Talking with Sofie Marie is always a pleasure because she is a mature, professionally-driven adult entertainer who is incredibly sexy.

One of the things that makes Sofie stand out is her affection for the swinging lifestyle. I wanted to find out how that avenue of her sexual lifestyle factors into her porn career.

Let’s see what she has to say.

(All photos are courtesy of Sofie Marie)

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Sheltered

First tell us how you got involved with swinging.

“When I met my now husband, he had to tell me what a swinger was because I had no idea! I was very sheltered,” Sofie begins. The idea of sexually experimenting with other people fascinated her, but she needed a spark to kindle her fire. That came via a video production.

“I saw a hot music video with lots of sexy girls in lingerie running around at a party. I really wanted to go to a party like that, so we did . . . a swinger party, and I was hooked!”

I’ve talked with porn girls who dabble in swinging and they’ve told me about their personal guidelines for the sex they have. Does Sofie have any of her own?

She does. When “playing” with other swingers, be they singles or couples, Sofie says, “I have to have a connection and like the people. I have never been a random sex person, so the personal connection is key.”

Having said that, she points out, “sex for me is just fun!” It becomes emotional when “it’s with my husband.”

And, the statuesque California babe wants it real and sends a message to her play partners. “I prefer bareback sex, so please be fourteen-day STD tested because condoms are the only other way we can play.”

Girls are in Charge

Next, give us an inside look at swinging. What are some of its dynamics?

Sophie explains the scene.

“Girls are one hundred percent in charge in the lifestyle. The men who survive in swinging let the girls drive the program.”

In the end, “bossy men are weeded out pretty quickly” and it’s important that girls should “never take one for the team, as we say,” she adds.

By the way, girls who are interested in other girls proliferate in the lifestyle, so “that is the best ice breaker,” Sophie remarks. Swinging is most rewarding when the girls are “confident in themselves and enjoy the attention.”

To clarify how important that is, Sofie insists that “when you wake up the next morning you should be smiling and basking in the experience of sex, not cringing and wishing it didn’t happen. Never have any regrets!”

Sex in Front of People

Compared with a porn set, what’s it like to have sex in front of an audience?

“It’s harder to be watched by onlookers than a porn crew,” Sofie states. They are “focused on their job and generally detached from the sex they are shooting.”

(Sofie is spot on about this. From personal experience, I can tell you her words apply to industry journalists, as well.)

On the other hand, Sofie comments that “swingers are like kids in a candy store. They are watching for sexual pleasure!”

That suits our MILF hottie just fine, by the way.

“I like having sex in front of people because it’s fun to see them looking at the scene.  I wonder what they may be thinking, and sometimes I will ask them to join in the fun!!”

Of course, swinging means having sex with people who don’t necessarily throw their bodies out there for public consumption. What problems might come out of this?

Sofie replies that swinging can present interpersonal challenges that she doesn’t find with porn or camming.

“From swinging, I have had to deal with the awful feelings of jealousy. The dreaded green monster is usually the destruction of most relationships.”

That’s understandable, of course, since Sofie is married.

“From the very beginning of my relationship with my husband, we have discussed the root causes of jealousy,” she explains, and the “insecurity” it fosters.

“By focusing on trust, respect, and honesty in my marriage, I have seen my fears dissipate and my sexual energy increase. I have come to see that any jealously I felt was due to my feelings of adequacy versus the actions of my spouse, so now I love watching him as much as he likes watching me.”

Talking about her husband stimulates her juices. “Wow, I am really wet now!” she says with a broad smile.

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Follow Sofie Marie at:

https://yummygirl.com/

https://sofiemariexxx.com/

Watch Sofie Marie here.

 

 

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May 22, 2019 · 9:39 am