by Rich Moreland
This is the second installment of our interview with Emori Pleezer. She is with Foxxx Modeling. Her model page can be found here.
Photos are credited to Kevin Sayers and Emori Pleezer.
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Parties and Porn
As a lifestyle couple, Emori and her Dom attend private BDSM parties, most of them at private residences. However, Emori is reluctant to play out scenes at these gatherings because she is shy, she says.
The bondage newbie offers this insight.
Compared with shooting porn, “being beat in front of people [in a BDSM setting] is way different than just fucking on a set, you know?”
Understandable. A room filled with onlookers is a time warp apart from a film set where actors, directors and crew have professional responsibilities.
Porn, after all, is a business and film shoots don’t admit the curious to gawk at the action.
As we’ve established, Emori Pleezer is relatively new to the “whips and chains” kink and is navigating her way along its learning curve.
Of her Dom, she says, “He’s actually the only top I’ve played with. I had one of my friends tie me up. But other than that, I don’t play with anyone else. He’s the only one I trust, so far. It’s like marking my body, you know? He knows how to control it.”
Emori comments that scening with other Doms at a BDSM gathering is a hassle. She’d have to become familiar with the guy so he’d understand that if she has a porn shoot coming up marks are verboden. That’s “way too much work and I’m not gonna deal with it,” she says.
Japanese Shibari is popular with the fetish community and is revered for using bondage designs that turn live models into works of art. Is her rope artist friend versed in these techniques?
Apparently. “He’s the one who roped me up. It was a lot of fun. All the Doms and sadists had a lot of fun with that,” Emori says.
She recalls a particular pattern that “has knots all the way down and there was a knot right here.” Emori points to that tender spot between her legs. When the sadists pulled on it, she had an “instant orgasm.”
“They had a bunch of fun at that party. I had a lot of fun, but I think they had more,” she laughs.
Things are progressing in Emori’s world of submission. She has earned her collar.
How difficult was that?
“To be honest, I had to be myself. I had to open up, I had to let go of some things. I’m stubborn and so with him I had to let go of all that and not be passive aggressive or anything. We had to get to know each other, trust each other, kind of play a little bit to see if we bonded.”
As is common in the community, the Princess and her Dom have a contract which took a few months to settle. They went through it three times before Emori granted her approval. Patience is important when documenting expectations and limits.
It so happens, by the way, there is another sub involved with Emori’s Dom.
“He has two of us and me and her are really good friends, I love her to pieces,” Emori says.
How does all this factor in with her Dom?
“Basically, me and her will just like fuck around. [We’ll] start off with just us and he’ll be like ‘Okay, you guys, that’s unfair. I want love too,’” she smiles with delight.
“It’s like a triple relationship, you know? But the contract is just strictly me and him.”
Emori indicates that everything is coming together. “Yeah, it took a lot to get to where I am with this and I’m really happy with it to be honest.”
Is she in a polyamorous arrangement with her Dom and the other sub?
“I’m in a relationship with them,” Emori says, “but I would never be with other people [sexually] other than for porn. I take relationships seriously and if they [her Dom and the other girl] wanted to go be with other people, I’m like ‘Okay be safe about it. Care about me.’”
Incidentally, her Dom has imposed a rule on her, Emori remarks. “I’m not allowed to have sex with anybody unless it’s for porn.”
There is a caveat, however, that includes his other sub.
“Yes, me and the girl can be with as many girls as we want,” Emori says before proclaiming, “All girls come to me please, ‘cause I love girls!”
If girls are okay for sex, men are not. . . at least in Emori’s private life.
“Yeah, no sex with other men. I’m strictly his,” she announces with pride.
Porn is another matter, as you might expect. It’s Emori’s profession so there was a meeting of the minds in that regard.
“Obviously I got into this (porn) way before I met him so he cannot tell me to not have sex with industry male talent. They are a part of my work which we have established he cannot infringe upon,” the collared sweetheart says.
“He cares about what I do and knows those males are acceptable to be with. So, no sex with guys unless they are male talent and I can sleep with all the girls I want.”
Seems to be a win-win for everyone.
How did you discover the existence of BDSM communities?
“I didn’t actually start knowing anything about [BDSM] until March of 2017 when my roommate—she’s one of my best friends now—was like ‘Oh I’m into this, you know,’” Emori begins.
“I was like, ‘Oh that’s cool Can you teach me a little?’ We started going to these coffees and that’s how I met him (her Dom),” Emori says. The gatherings also benefited her friend who found her guy there, also.
Most importantly, Emori was emotionally primed to find her passion.
“It was amazing, an eye opener. And I was like, ‘Wow, learning so much more about myself that I didn’t know.’ I thought I was just some bossy girl. Turns out I’m just a princess,” she chuckles.
Are you a lifestyler?
“Yes. At first, I was like maybe I’ll dabble in it, go to some parties and stuff. But now I’m collared. I feel like this is a lifestyle choice.”
Do you think you may drift into shooting BDSM porn along with the vanilla stuff you’re doing now?
“I feel like I will get heavy into it but I’m still gonna be that half-half girl. I’ll work out the two because I like both of them.”
Congrats, Emori Pleezer! Relish your new-found love and we hope that Kink.com, Infernal Restraints, Sexually Broken, and Hardtied will soon be picking up the phone to explore your fetish half!