by Rich Moreland, May 2019
Our talk with Sofie Marie, a sultry MILF who is the very essence of a porn vixen, continues.
(All photos are courtesy of Sofie Marie)
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Next, we turn to camming. Unlike some porn stars, camming for Sofie Marie was not a portal into shooting adult scenes.
“I started camming about two years after I started my website so I could interact with my fans and promote my website. I am a very shy person, but I do love chatting with people, so I have really good time talking on cam.
“I view my camming as great way to support my porn career and let my fans know who I really am as a person. I treasure my personal connection with my cam friends and I look forward to talking with them!”
Considering your three adult activities—swinging, camming, and porn—which one is the easiest to do and which is the hardest?
Believe it or not, porn is the smoothest, Sofie claims.
“It’s much easier for me to get mentally ready to shoot a porn scene than it is to go out swinging. Porn is my career and I take it very seriously,” she says emphatically.
On the other hand, “camming is harder than porn,” she believes, but it has its advantages.
“I love talking to my fans and I have learned so much about fetishes and what they want to see.” Her fans are super cool and offer Sofie support in everything she does.
“They do like it that I am so busy!! Mostly they like that I do porn or swing, but the guys on cam are the ones asking me about my activities.”
What’s more, camming has a significant upside. “I hope it has made my porn scenes better for my fans,” she says.
A Possible Dud
Sofie chuckles that swinging presents challenges camming does not. “In comparison, swinging is kind of awkward in a funny way since I don’t have a camera to pay attention to while I am getting laid!”
Now there is a conscientious porn star!
Sofie Marie adds that swinging has a downside when it comes to personal satisfaction.
“Swinging can be the sexist thing I do, or it can be a dud. Most of my fantasies in my ‘spank bank’ are from swinging experiences that were super hot and horny! Group sex, threesomes, voyeurism, girl/girl, are some of the scenes that get me off when I am masturbating on cam!”
She reassures us that it’s all good in the end.
“When swinging is a dud, I still get to go home and fuck my husband, so it’s a winner, too!”
The Creation Process
From her personal perspective on adult entertainment, which is more rewarding, camming or porn?
“I like porn the best because I love the creation process and the legacy of the video, especially if it’s a good one!” Sofie declares. “I usually cam solo, so it’s a totally different experience than working with a performer. But I always get to have a bunch of orgasms [with camming], so it’s a fun job for me in that way.”
If you had to drop one of your three sexual adventures, what would stick around in your adult portfolio?
“I would keep porn and camming since they give me [the] most [satisfaction] sexually and emotionally,” Sofie says with conviction.
Finally, what is the most important piece of advice anyone wanting a rewarding adult career like yours should consider?
“Being comfortable in your own skin was key for me,” she declares. “As I have said, I was very shy and body conscious when I was younger.”
Of course, today’s Sofie is a different person.
“I am a nudist now and love micro bikinis. My old bikinis were big enough for us to use them as a sail on a sailboat!” she laughs.
Without doubt, modeling was an important factor in the changes Sofie experienced.
“Becoming a micro bikini model and shooting in public really forced me to get over my self-critical perception of my body. I have had so much positive feedback since I started modeling. I had to start listening to the good compliments over my own self-doubts.”
Once she became “confident in her skin,” as she puts it, the beach beauty remarks that the rest of her adult journey fell into place.
“Having sex in front of the camera and then in front of people was a logical step for me.”
But we can’t forget how important support at home is for any adult performer.
“I have a wonderful marriage built on trust and honesty which gives me the emotional confidence to perform and know that I am loved, unconditionally.”
Well said and thanks, Sofie Marie, for an inside look at a spectacular porn star’s career.
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